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Vanessa Haldane

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Victim Mentality – how if differs from Narcissism and I get loose on the topic of ‘Influencers”

What is Victim Mentality and is it the same as being narcissistic? Well lets firstly establish that having a VICTIM MENTALITY and NARCISM are two very different things, afflicting two very different types of people. Let’s break it down Victim mentality – This is a MINDSET and can be changed. People with a victim mentality …


Why Women’s magazines, aren’t helping women!

We are all, I assume, aware of the effects social media is having on womens self esteem. Whilst we , appear to, be making some waves with the #bodypositivity movement, society at large continues to place a great emphasis on how women look. The standards of beauty set for women, largely through the media, impact …


We’re NOT here for your entertainment!How women are seen by men needs to change – and it starts with us!

TRIGGER WARNING – CHILDHOOD ABUSE I’ve been holding in so much ANGER, of late, around the way women are treated by men. What has made my anger boil over is how I see women treat other women. This anger ultimately resulted in a lot of self reflection, on my part, revisiting the past to understand …